The line crossed
Knowingly making acceptance more authoritative than God.
Commandment 1 · Put God first

The audition results are out. You made the group you have wanted to join for two years. After rehearsal, someone hands you a private challenge: prove you belong by joining an activity you already know disobeys God. “If your faith gets a vote here, you are out.” Nobody is asking whether you enjoy music or friendship. They are asking who has final authority.
Thou shalt have no other gods before me.Exodus 20:3 · King James Version
There is a cost behind every answer. Choose one to examine it.
Knowingly making acceptance more authoritative than God.
Letting God’s authority determine a costly decision.
Enjoying a talent or wanting friends is not having another god. The issue here is a deliberate transfer of highest loyalty.
Write the sentence you would actually say. Keep it brief, clear, and respectful. Identify one adult you could talk with afterward.